Life (:
Friday, 13 April 2012 | 09:37 | 0 comments
Okay , it's 12:38am right now , & I'm still not asleep .Hooray ? LOL .
Anywho , I have a sudden deep emotional vibe flowing thru me .
So imma dedicate this blog post & talk abt , life (; .
#1 : GIRLS .
Hi , I'm a girl (obviously) , & I know how it's like being a freakin' girl .
There will be the oh so annoying MoodSwings a.k.a. PMS .
Yes , PMS is a total bitch .
It makes us feel like this :
To this :
To this :
& finally this :
Awful isn't it ? : / .
So boys , count yrself lucky you don't have to experience this EVERY SINGLE MONTH .
But here's some tips for girls going thru PMS :
- DONT START LOOSING TEMPER RANDOMLY .
I know it's hard to control , but if you really feel like screaming at someone , don't . Just go to a pillow of smth & scream at that . Or just tell them you're not in the mood so don't talk to them .
- KEEP CALM & BREATHE .
It works actually (: . Breathing really helps ! So just breathe okay !
- THINK POSITIVE .
Don't start thinking of something that would make you mad or sad ! Watch something funny like a movie or video or hang out with people that'll make you laugh (; .
- RMB , IT'LL ONLY LAST FOR A WEEK .
So don't go over dramatic & say you've been having moodswings for more than week just ot receive more attention ._. Well , not unless you're someone who has like depression or smth . That's a whole different story .
Another thing about girls , insecurities .
Don't worry , I have them too .
Things like , I'm so fat , or , Why can't I be prettier ?
Yes , sometimes . or most of the times I would feel that I'm too fat . Or I'm too ugly . Or I'm too stupid . I'm sure not only girls feel this way , sometimes guys too .
But I do know , that everyone is perfect the way they are (:
We are all born unique & we don't have to change that .
To girls who feel ugly :
Girls , make-up isn't meant to be used to make yourself feel secure . It's to enhance a beautiful face . It shouldn't be used as a mask to cover yr insecure face . Remember , your natural face is a beautiful painting itself (: . No amount of make-up will ever change that (:
To girls who feel fat :
Hey , you're not fat . Even if you are it just means you've been lazy . Being too skinny isn't too good , neither is being too fat . Just be of a simple , natural weight (: . I have low metabolism rate & yes I'm slightly fatter than average : / . But I don't wish to be too skinny , I still do want some fats in me (: . Something comfortable . If you feel you're overweight , exercise & have a healthy diet . Do not overdo it (; .
To girls who feel like they're not loved .
Hey , you're always loved ! Remember that ! God loves you , your family loves you , your friends love you . There is bound to be a few people who will hate you , but hating them back won't make matters better . Neither will hating yourself be any better . Start being positive in life (: . Oh , & rushing into a relationship just because you want to feel secure is stupid . Be in a relationship only because you love the person , not because you want security . Don't ever , EVER , forget , you are loved . You're just not seeing it (: .
#2 : GUYS .
Okay , so obviously I'm not a guy ._. Hahaha , so I can't give very detailed things about being a guy or whatever , but I shall give my opinions (: .
Guys , don't play with a girl's feelings .
Maybe you've been hurt before & you just want to take revenge , remember , not every girl is the same as the one that hurt you . It's not worth hurting others just because you've been hurt once , this applies to girls as well . Same logic .
Yes I am too .
Guys ,
I respect you that you have to go to the army . To protect your loved ones , family , country . It's an honorable thing y'know ? (: Cheers to you .
#3 : LIFE .
Life can be a total bitch at times . When you're finally feeling good & happy , something awful just happens y'know ? & it just doesn't warns you . Yeap , that is life . But you have to learn to cope with it . One way or another .
"Life is like a mirror . Smile at it & it will smile back at you"
- Peace Pilgrim .
Here's some tips for what you can do in life :
- SOMEONE HURT YOU ? HATE THEM ? FORGIVE THEM .
Hey , I know it's hard to forgive someone who has hurt you . I have experienced it before . But instead of wasting your time hating , use it to love . You won't gain any hating someone . Don't let hatred get into your heart , just let it be a memory (:
- FOLLOW YOUR DREAMS .
It's hard to follow your dreams , especially if the person you love most (family or friend) doesn't approve of it . They either feel it's useless or pointless to be hoping for something that is like one in a million . Don't blame them , they are just looking out for you . but I don't expect you to follow them either . I know how it feels . i myself LOVE art . but my father doesn't find any future in it . He thinks it's pointless & should only be a hobby : / . But I will continue striving for my dreams . You should strive for yours too . Always focus on what you want & never give up on it ! Make sure you work hard for it ! Nothing is free in the world (:
- DONT EVER GIVE UP .
There will be things in life that will make you want to give up & just stop . It can be people , jobs , problems . but don't ever give up . DON'T . Remember God will never let you down & if you give up now , you'll never reach what you've spent so much time on . You'll never know when you're gonna reach what you've been looking for . if you don't give up , you have a chance ! But if you give up now , you'll never have that chance again . So don't ever loose that hope . Ever (:
- LOVE YOURSELF & BE YOURSELF .
There will definitely be people who will hate you & judge you even if you don't do anything to them . Don't ever change yourself just to please them . You will never be able to please everyone . Instead , why not be someone who is good & let the people choose you (: . Fake friends will only want you when you are useful to them , but true friends will stay with you no matter what happens to you (: .
- LOVE YOURSELF & LOVE OTHERS .
Don't live your life as a hateful person . Learn to forgive & forget . Love others & love yourself . Love the ones you love , love the people whom you don't know , & love your enemies too (: . Luke 6:27 ; But I tell you who hears me , love your enemies & do good to those who hate you . Life will never be happy if you live in hatred & anger . Let it go , & just live each day happy (: .
- JUDGEMENTS .
People will definitely judge each other . You've judge & I've judged . I'm changing . I hate the feeling of being judged y'know ? People only knwo what you've done but not what you've been through . The feeling is really horrible . Treat others like how you want to be treated , so don't judge . Be quiet & just don't judge . If others judge you , remember , if you are not what they say you are , don't care about them . They can't hurt you with that (: . Don't ever take those words to heart .
"I am what you say I am . If I'm not , why would you say that about me ?"
-Eminem .
#4 : LOVE .
Love is a very common thing in this world (: .
It isn't just for romantic relationships , it can be for an object , a friend or family (:
For me , I love God , family , friends , music & art (:
There is many different love in this world , so here are some of my opinions on it :
- FAMILY .
Your family is one of the many blessings you'll ever have in your lifetime . They are the one who brought you to life . You'll only have a pair of them in your entire lifetime . So treasure them , respect them , love them . Don't let anything break the relationship between you & your parents (:
A daddy's love .
- FRIENDS .
They are the people you can trust & share things with (: . But not all friends are true , you'll need to choose them carefully . Remember , a friend will try to cheer you up when you're crying but a true friend will cry together with you (: . A true friend is someone who will stand up for you if you are right but will scold you if you are wrong (: . Don't ever loose that friend .
- LOVERS .
Lovers remember , don't ever cheat , lie or hurt your lover . Love them with all your heart , if not why would you want to be with them ? Don't be a player . Remember , there will always be someone out there who is smarter , prettier than your lover . But remember that there is also someone way better than YOU but your lover still chose you (: . Respect it , appreciate it . Be loyal . be honest , be faithful . Because apparently out of 6-7 billion of people , you end up with that one special person (: .
- GOD .
Yes , love God (: I love you God . I will live each day to glorify You in Your name (: . Hahahaha !
So that is all fro my ultra long post in the middle of the night ^^ .
Oh my friend told me to do a dedication for him : / . So here it is !
HI HOYIN . Be happy okay , this post is for you ! :@
Thanks ahh , for that eye drop that time x: HAHA !
Don't eat too much sweet okay ! Later kena decay then you know =3= !
I know lah I know lah , you v.handsome okayy ? (: ! HAHA .
You & your 13 girlfriends . HAIYO !
OKAY ! Thats's all :D BUHBYEE <3
